Spooky_Child wrote:On the bright side at least now you can get Google Chrome...
YES!
Spooky_Child wrote:On the bright side at least now you can get Google Chrome...
Donkeycheese wrote:I would have said no as well - way too bum-licky. You need them to understand that you, as the customer, are the boss. People don't repsond well to begging. Try directing. Here, I'll re-write for you
Hi,
I am your customer, and everyone knows the customer is always right. I want to change my username. It is no longer appropriate. I recognise that this may be a bit of work for you, but you do fuck all anyway, so shut your fucking gob, and get on it.
If you can't change it, then it ain't too much hassle. I reckon your site will be dead and gone within 12 months anyway, you fucking losers.
I have 10,150 points and 499 exp, and I can't be fucked starting over. But, I'll probably cash these points out before you go under. I don't care so much about not being able to post as I have heaps of multis anyway.
Please change? Pretty please? Nicely?
If not, Ok, I understand. But you can still fuck off you stupid cunts.
Thanks guys,
####### :o)
ydekm wrote:Who knew Ken actually replied to emails!
I love Ken.
He's the Asian guy right?
Summoner wrote:Oh well... your choice and if it's what you want good lick.
Muy question is... didn't you only marry the guy a couple of years back?
No biggie... I'm just sure it was you that was getting married then and I understand the 11 year thing...I just, yeah.
Oh as for the keeping it here... I'm sure the ones that actually DO post in here will... the troll that lurks on the other hand...
83T'na wrote:Hubby and I had a good talk last night. He finally understands that I don't love him anymore and feel no physical attraction to him. I guess the shouting begins here?
Summoner wrote:Oh well... your choice and if it's what you want good lick.
Muy question is... didn't you only marry the guy a couple of years back?
No biggie... I'm just sure it was you that was getting married then and I understand the 11 year thing...I just, yeah.
Oh as for the keeping it here... I'm sure the ones that actually DO post in here will... the troll that lurks on the other hand...
83T'na wrote:Hubby and I had a good talk last night. He finally understands that I don't love him anymore and feel no physical attraction to him. I guess the shouting begins here?
relict wrote:83T'na wrote:Hubby and I had a good talk last night. He finally understands that I don't love him anymore and feel no physical attraction to him. I guess the shouting begins here?
What??? You told US before you told HIM??!!
Is this an example of your great attempts at communication that seem not to be working? Perhaps if you'd given him an honest chance ...
83T'na wrote:relict wrote:83T'na wrote:Hubby and I had a good talk last night. He finally understands that I don't love him anymore and feel no physical attraction to him. I guess the shouting begins here?
What??? You told US before you told HIM??!!
Is this an example of your great attempts at communication that seem not to be working? Perhaps if you'd given him an honest chance ...
No, I did not tell you guys first. What do you take me for? Of course I told him first. But, it's taken me this long to get him to understand that there is no going back to what I felt for him in the past.
Just so you know, we did counselling together last year with a view to repairing our relationship. I put everything I had into that and things did improve for a few months. It's just that I have realised I haven't loved him for (what seems like) a long time and it's wrong to go on pretending to him and the rest of the world that I'm happy when I'm not.
83T'na wrote:relict wrote:83T'na wrote:Hubby and I had a good talk last night. He finally understands that I don't love him anymore and feel no physical attraction to him. I guess the shouting begins here?
What??? You told US before you told HIM??!!
Is this an example of your great attempts at communication that seem not to be working? Perhaps if you'd given him an honest chance ...
No, I did not tell you guys first. What do you take me for? Of course I told him first. But, it's taken me this long to get him to understand that there is no going back to what I felt for him in the past.
Just so you know, we did counselling together last year with a view to repairing our relationship. I put everything I had into that and things did improve for a few months. It's just that I have realised I haven't loved him for (what seems like) a long time and it's wrong to go on pretending to him and the rest of the world that I'm happy when I'm not.
relict wrote:
I believe there is an element of conscious choice with love, rather than it just being a feeling. It's also a foreign concept to me to put a time limit on putting effort into a relationship. Parents tend not to put a time limit on "putting everything they have" into their relationship with their young children, even when things go wrong, and yet we don't choose our children but we choose our partners.
____ wrote:relict wrote:
I believe there is an element of conscious choice with love, rather than it just being a feeling. It's also a foreign concept to me to put a time limit on putting effort into a relationship. Parents tend not to put a time limit on "putting everything they have" into their relationship with their young children, even when things go wrong, and yet we don't choose our children but we choose our partners.
The dynamic between a person and their children and a person and their partner is vastly different, from an evolutionary standpoint, and I'd wager from a sociological one too.
83T'na wrote:____ wrote:relict wrote:
I believe there is an element of conscious choice with love, rather than it just being a feeling.
The dynamic between a person and their children and a person and their partner is vastly different, from an evolutionary standpoint, and I'd wager from a sociological one too.
Falling in love with a partner is more about chemistry than conscious thought. But that's only ever a starting point. If one loves fishing and would spend every waking free hour doing it and the other wouldn't dream of getting all cold wet and slimy for something you can buy in a supermarket, it's not going to last no matter what the chemistry so conscious thought will kick in at some point.
relict wrote:
Love would allow some different hobbies, and some interests not shared, though if someone were to spend every waking moment fishing, there's something else wrong, LOL.