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    My marriage is over. Well, all but the shouting.

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    Post  relict Tue May 25, 2010 5:18 pm

    83T'na wrote:
    relict wrote:
    Love would allow some different hobbies, and some interests not shared, though if someone were to spend every waking moment fishing, there's something else wrong, LOL.

    Hell yes. Laughing

    Not just a hypothetical example, then?
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    Post  83T'na Tue May 25, 2010 5:21 pm

    Well, it was a hypothetical. But things would be better if he DID go out fishing once in a while. It's called 'getting a life of your own'. I have my online life as well as other interests and he does nothing but work and stuff with us. No outside interests at all.
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    Post  relict Tue May 25, 2010 5:26 pm

    83T'na wrote:things would be better if he DID go out fishing once in a while. It's called 'getting a life of your own'. I have my online life as well as other interests and he does nothing but work and stuff with us. No outside interests at all.

    Yeah, many people have the opposite problem. Discontent that partner spends time with interests and not them. Balance is nice. Smile
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    Post  Allan Tue May 25, 2010 7:06 pm

    83T'na wrote:It's called 'getting a life of your own'. I have my online life

    Yep, kinda says it all.

    83T'na wrote:he does nothing but work and stuff with us.

    Gee, he sounds like a real fucking prick!
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    Post  woody67 Tue May 25, 2010 7:42 pm

    Allan wrote:
    83T'na wrote:It's called 'getting a life of your own'. I have my online life

    Yep, kinda says it all.

    83T'na wrote:he does nothing but work and stuff with us.

    Gee, he sounds like a real fucking prick!




    hmm I lol'd ....but at the same time when someone does not have any outside interests they can be a tad anal about you having them and can in reality actually end up being a wee bit controlling?
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    Post  canterella Tue May 25, 2010 7:47 pm

    83T'na wrote:Well, it was a hypothetical. But things would be better if he DID go out fishing once in a while. It's called 'getting a life of your own'. I have my online life as well as other interests and he does nothing but work and stuff with us. No outside interests at all.

    Funny, hubby and I have no separate outside interests/hobbies as such yet our marriage is doing very well. We're just happy to spend free time together and with our kids. Are we abnormal?
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    Post  ydekm Tue May 25, 2010 7:50 pm

    I didnt realise we all had to conform to the same set of rules when it came to our partnerships.

    If my partner had no life it would fuck me off after awhile too. Space is good.
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    Post  Waireka Tue May 25, 2010 8:32 pm

    ydekm wrote:If my partner had no life it would fuck me off after awhile too. Space is good.


    Same here.

    I find we argue if we are left in eachothers faces too long.

    It's easier to appreciate him when he's not always looking to me for entertainment.
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    Post  83T'na Tue May 25, 2010 8:46 pm

    Waireka wrote:
    ydekm wrote:If my partner had no life it would fuck me off after awhile too. Space is good.


    Same here.

    I find we argue if we are left in eachothers faces too long.

    It's easier to appreciate him when he's not always looking to me for entertainment.

    Head of hammer hits nail. Thank you.

    Don't get me wrong - I'm not trying to put him down. He's a good man.
    But, he's a good man who deserves better than to be tied to a woman who can't give him what he wants.

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