Bardan Wed Mar 24, 2010 10:22 am
Barden when your child signs up for a new season of say soccer,rugby,hockey etc , they are isussed with a mouthguard I think the initiative is funded by ACC.
Well soccer didn't but I wouldn't know for the others. But the mouthguards I'm talking about were for school.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for the fact that without a doubt you have increased the frequency of posts in this forum.
Thanks mate, it is exactly what we set out to do.
demanding that people debate with you in a certain way or gently do this or honourably do that can come off sounding quite controlling, especially when you are the newbie
They are requests, not demands. Nobody is forced to refrain from child-rape jibes or derogatory threads or even writing about me on Smile City (yes, I saw that.) But those are my standards for debate and I'm not so short of open honest conversation opportunities that I need to consort with abusive people.
The truth is that my partner and I intended to increase traffic on Tartarus and bring in some new views because she and her friends felt it was getting a bit dull. But the reaction to my beliefs has not been the civil response we counted on. Flat Tack has left the forum over this.
Look, in regard to teaching our kids financial respect you and I are pretty much on the same page, except perhaps in regard to what I think parental responsibilities are ie: I think that it is my job to ensure my son is fed properly ,clothed appropiatly and exercises his brain and physical self,
I'm not sure how you think that puts us on a different page?
to this end I pay for the tools he needs to acheive this because I am the parent.
Again, I also pay. It's just that we let the kids express their preferences and be involved in the spending decisions that are, after all, their business.
Placing too much emphasise on money can IMO create the very adult you are trying to avoid...
We place an emphasis on value, not money.
They're going to find out about negotiation and work and spending wisely and cleaning up after themselves one day. Why put that day off until they're teenagers and it hits them all at once? Maybe that's why we get teenage devience. My kids are smart enough and capable enough to learn about thrift and value now. I cannot in good conscience stand in their way or invent mythological economies like fairies.