Home
I've noticed a couple of ghost bumps in her threads.
I'm curious there seems to be mention of 'what happened last time', can someone fill me in?
I'm curious there seems to be mention of 'what happened last time', can someone fill me in?
+12
Diaz
Tikva
Anjewel
ChelseaT
canterella
Wizz
flat_tack
Jesus Christ
Summoner
Donkeycheese
relict
Psalter
16 posters
narkslovenz (just me laughing inside)
Psalter- River-God
Broadly speaking, there are two start points to self-improvement; self-reflection, and constructive criticism. Unfortunately, constructive criticism relies on reflection for it to work.
Self-reflection is a deliberate act that sees a person examine their actions for strengths and weaknesses; once identified the person may take action to improve on their strengths, and eliminate their weaknesses (to some degree). If a person is inadequately equipped to examine their strengths and weaknesses, it often requires an outside party to identify them for the person. However, it is then up to the person to examine the criticisms for motivation, veracity, and possible paths to improvement... this, in itself, is reflection.
Multiple people have commented on your forum demeanour marks, at times (more often than not) I (and others) have done so with a snippy and condescending attitude. I see the error of my ways. However, the message is clear; there are aspects of your online personality that <b>need</b> work... and that work can only come from you.
The way I see it, you read into things too much, you are too serious, and you attempt to debate people that are very much above your weight class. Further, you cannot handle being wrong and do not admit it easily (if at all). To compound this, you are not reflective, you do not accept that it is you that has the problem, you do not accept that it is you that needs to change. It is self-destructive behaviour.
That "yeah right" above is indicative of all this.
Just in case she deletes it... so I can repost.
Anjewel- Nymph
Well said and put and placed...
Psalter- River-God
and she deleted the thread... cowardice.
Tikva- Nymph
It's not just that Psalter. She needs to get a life away from her puter, but she can't.
That is quite possibly true. Please, remember that not everyone responds to everything the same way, and sometimes, contact with people via the Internet is the only thing that is keeping you from being sucked into the abyss.
Sometimes, people in the 'real life' world petrify you, even though there is no valid reason ~ it just 'is'.
It is quite possible that I would be six foot under by now had it not been for the Internet. Whether any of you believe it or not is up to you ~ I can only speak from my experience and my truth.
Diaz- Nymph
Blank
Last edited by Diaz on Thu Apr 01, 2010 12:38 am; edited 1 time in total
Tikva- Nymph
Perhaps that's the point, they don't need to really face real life while posting on the internet. Only problem is it catches up with you eventually.
That would certainly be a part of it.......
Psalter- River-God
Diaz, Kieran (savant) and I are sitting here and discussing online personalities and we (I) have decided that you are the ultimate in online debating and rational thought (he says there is one other).
master5o1- Cyclopes
Psalter wrote:Diaz, Kieran (savant) and I are sitting here and discussing online personalities and we (I) have decided that you are the ultimate in online debating and rational thought (he says there is one other).
Who is this one other (obviously not me).
Psalter- River-God
Someone from GPOD I assume.
(He is snoring).
(He is snoring).
Diaz- Nymph
Blank
Last edited by Diaz on Thu Apr 01, 2010 12:38 am; edited 1 time in total
____- Nymph
I was passed out at only 1am? For shame, on my family name.
relict- River-God
relict wrote:Somebody linked to a cartoon the other day about facebook types, including those who use avatars of their baby. It had a good point.
I also don't get why someone would use a name for themselves like ___(partner)__'s love. It's like saying your personal worth depends on them.
So narkslovenz, in that sense, might be an improvement.
markslovenz, if you are reading this, I mean no offense.
Bump 4 83T'na
Pleased to see you found a better name.
Oh, and Welcome!
83T'na- Nymph
Why, thank you.
Waireka- River-God
My FB profile pic is my baby, so is my Sig here.
I find him to be cuter than me.
Eventually I will miss staring at myself all day and change it back.
I find him to be cuter than me.
Eventually I will miss staring at myself all day and change it back.
relict- River-God
Waireka wrote:My FB profile pic is my baby
Really?
Waireka wrote:so is my Sig here.
Yes, but you avatar isn't. Not the same thing.
Waireka- River-God
relict wrote:Waireka wrote:My FB profile pic is my baby
Really?Waireka wrote:so is my Sig here.
Yes, but you avatar isn't. Not the same thing.
Was. But I began to miss myself last night.
Summoner- Nymph
Waireka wrote:relict wrote:Waireka wrote:My FB profile pic is my baby
Really?Waireka wrote:so is my Sig here.
Yes, but you avatar isn't. Not the same thing.
Was. But I began to miss myself last night.
Oh that made me lol.
Similar topics
