I have mentioned a few times that I consider myself to be "fucked in the head (FITH)", and the reality is, that I am. I am locked into an emotional, physical, and mental cycle, one which prevents me from getting the very help that will aid me in solving my personal issues. The cycle seems to go something like this:
I get extremely depressed, and part of the way in which the depression shows itself is by me finding it extremely difficult and more often than not, impossible for me to leave my home. This of course prevents my ability to see a Therapist on a regular basis, and it is the therapy that can help resolve whatever issues are causing it. I start to get a bit better, manage to see a little 'hope', and often will get myself part time employment. That makes me feel even more better, but then crap things start happening, and slowly but surely I roll back down into being extremely depressed.
The whole thing really fucks me off, makes me feel fucking useless (which in many ways I am), angry, and pathetic. I want to get off this crazy fucking Merry Go Round, am sick of wasting days, months and years of my life on it, but when it comes to actually trying to get off it when I am in the extreme depression, it's like there is a loud metal sounding 'clang' that happens in me, and the thought of leaving the house is next to impossible. That is the point where I am at now, and even though I have talked to my psychiatrist about it, the advice of "just force yourself to do it" is what I am given. Sometimes, I am able to force myself to, but usually I just cannot do it.
This not only affects me ~ it affects my children and my ability to be a good mother to them, and it also affects my partner. It pushes them all away (which I can understand completely), and because it is something that is difficult to really understand unless you have been there, they assume that it is simply a matter of 'just doing it ~ it's not hard'.
I feel so trapped, exhausted, angry, frustrated, pathetic and angry because of this, and even as I type this, thoughts of 'slapping myself' intrude into my head. I've never actually done that thankfully, but even so, that is a truly fucked thought to have!
I am on the Merry Go Round, desperately searching for the 'off' switch that should be in the middle somewhere, but I can't see it, or can't find it. I just don't know what the fucking answer or 'key' is.
I get extremely depressed, and part of the way in which the depression shows itself is by me finding it extremely difficult and more often than not, impossible for me to leave my home. This of course prevents my ability to see a Therapist on a regular basis, and it is the therapy that can help resolve whatever issues are causing it. I start to get a bit better, manage to see a little 'hope', and often will get myself part time employment. That makes me feel even more better, but then crap things start happening, and slowly but surely I roll back down into being extremely depressed.
The whole thing really fucks me off, makes me feel fucking useless (which in many ways I am), angry, and pathetic. I want to get off this crazy fucking Merry Go Round, am sick of wasting days, months and years of my life on it, but when it comes to actually trying to get off it when I am in the extreme depression, it's like there is a loud metal sounding 'clang' that happens in me, and the thought of leaving the house is next to impossible. That is the point where I am at now, and even though I have talked to my psychiatrist about it, the advice of "just force yourself to do it" is what I am given. Sometimes, I am able to force myself to, but usually I just cannot do it.
This not only affects me ~ it affects my children and my ability to be a good mother to them, and it also affects my partner. It pushes them all away (which I can understand completely), and because it is something that is difficult to really understand unless you have been there, they assume that it is simply a matter of 'just doing it ~ it's not hard'.
I feel so trapped, exhausted, angry, frustrated, pathetic and angry because of this, and even as I type this, thoughts of 'slapping myself' intrude into my head. I've never actually done that thankfully, but even so, that is a truly fucked thought to have!
I am on the Merry Go Round, desperately searching for the 'off' switch that should be in the middle somewhere, but I can't see it, or can't find it. I just don't know what the fucking answer or 'key' is.