Casey50, 4/02/2010 wrote:I knew someone who wanted the first words at her funeral to read:
"If anyone has not visited me in the last year, Please leave now."
But it was not said at her funeral.
Pity really.
Glad it wasn't. I don't believe there is much of a connection between the quality of love or friendship, and the frequency of communication. I have dear but distant friends with whom we can pick up where we left off even after years. I know other people who talk regularly to their friends or family from a sense of obligation or other motive that may have little to do with love or friendship.
Once I knew a couple who were always holding hands and doing things together, except when he was with his mistress, so even the expression of affection is not necessarily an accurate measure of love.
[(Dead person) was great and did (good things) ]